Comments (13) | Posted: May 14, 2009
Very interesting piece, thanks. I liked the fact you got input from a number of different perspectives. I especially liked the interviews with Claire Adams and would love to hear more from her.
I have been into this for 3 weeks and i consider them as marks of honour. I love to see them, they remind of the pleasures i have had and the potential of pleasures to come. I empathise with the models however, they simply can't turn up for new shoots marked.
In just vanilla play before I ever even KNEW anything about BDSM etc...I always LOVED to wake up the next morning with little bruises here and there because it was a reminder that I'd been VERY well used, well loved, however you choose to look at it. It's not a big stretch for me to see the furthest extreme this could go to. However, I agree that in these type of situations...It should be to the joy, pleasure (and tomorrow's job looms in your mind..lol..) and informed consent of all parties concerned.
P.S.I STILL love seeing the bruises, redness, ANYthing like that one my own skin! I like knowing that I went to a new place, scaled a new height so to speak...and I have to know that I gave some pleasure to whomever marked me as well...That's MY ultimate pleasure; If I know that the person I was with found pleasure in our time together, then it was MORE than worth it!
you know its kinda weird that AIget into this as much as I do because Ive yet to feel a good lashing. Iknow in witchcraft its kinda essential to understand the traditional, with the whip,, and its unique because if you do witchcraft and know not the whip you get sloppy and so the whip is an equal measure to remember your place so to speak. Now for me a whip is a good thing, and ican also dig pain, really get into the idea of woman in control and dont think for a minute that id be right if there werent any good welts! or ya know little ruptures where a she-devil can just give it to ya go for a minute or so and thats pushing it but if youlike pain thern ya.Ever get in a towel fight qith a ratstail? that leaves marks bad but these here be different and so geting marked up some is part of what ya want to begin withor your not really getting off. at least for me. i like it.
I also agree with lekitty if the other party isnt getting off on it too then wati a minute theres a problem, they shouldnt be there. but for your partner to be there with you the whole time in prfct trst and prfct lve then yes by all means lekitty,by all means.
From what movie is the scene where Sarah Jane Ceylon is stading in the class room and being whipped by Princess Donna?
Can anyone tell me who the model is at the very beginning? She's wearing a olive green dress and wearing glasses.
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An interesting psychological aspect of BDSM. Obviously there are viewers who are hugely excited by the picture of models showing "damage" to their skin, confirming the authenticity of the caning, whipping, whatever.I think the persistence of marking on male models is not such a problem as this adds to their "macho" image, but I heal slowly so I try to limit the "damage" I receive.